Heaven is a place on Earth with you.

Being a boyfriend.

Being a boyfriend is more than just sending your girl “I love you and I miss you” texts, giving her flowers and gifts on your important dates, or calling your girl babe or whatever endearments you wanna call her. It’s something deeper than that. Being romantic is a part and doing all those stuffs is a must. But I guess those things is just the side which is visible to everyone. Being a boyfriend is also being an emotional partner. It’s being there for your girl every time she needs a helping hand, being there to listen to all of her stories, being there to guide her on what is right and what is wrong. Her problem is your problem, her tears were your tears, and her happiness is your happiness. I think that is the meaning of being a boyfriend.

Being a girlfriend. 

Being a girlfriend is not just about being beautiful and attractive for your guy. It’s not just about letting him chase you, letting him do sweet things every time you’re mad at him and not just receiving flowers and gifts during your anniversaries. It’s not about doing those girly things just to get his attention and not just about feeling mighty every time he did everything you want. It’s also being an emotional partner wherein you support him in every opportunity that he takes, you appreciate everything that he does for you and you thank him for doing it, you remind him on the things he must do and what he must not. Just because you know that you can always keep him on his feet, doesn’t mean you can manipulate him. You understand him not just as a partner but as individual too. you help him in every way showing him, that in a relationship, there’s no “I” or “you”, there’s only “we” and “us”. You know also that a man has their ego, and even when it become a little irritating sometimes, you still understand that it’s a part of his nature. A girlfriend is not just a term, it also has responsibilities that every girl must know. You’re a friend, a sister, a second mom, a teacher, and a best friend.  

(Source: ding-ang-bato)

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Today is just like another other day just that I try harder trying to appear to be ok. Would love to go back to 2 years ago although it was not good but still, its so much better than now. Told myself that I will stop all my nonsense so I will stop here and keep everything to myself :')